Low Expectations

Over the last few years I have made a decision about Churches. Our Expectations of the people that sit in the pew is too low. In most churches, membership requires little more than a public declaration of faith and a quick trip through the baptistery. After meeting these requirements, members hear vague notions about being involved in stewardship, discipleship, and service.



But usually, there are no consequences for members who rarely attend or participate in anything. The Rotary will kick you out if you don’t attend meetings or pay your dues, but many churches won’t even communicate specific expectations, much less establish consequences if those expectations are not met.



Perhaps we are cheating church members.



We assume that most church members won’t evangelize, so we’re happy to stick with the very few who understand the mandate.



We assume that most church members will not get involved in a demanding Bible study, so we water down our teaching to appeal to the masses.



We assume that many church members will never tithe or give of their time in service to the community for the glory of our King, so we budget accordingly.



At best, we hope that people will act on our suggestions.



Our churches don’t know what they’re missing:





The thrill of leading someone to Christ.


The excitement of discovering God within the pages of his Word.


The satisfaction of making an impact in the community in the name of Christ.


The joy of giving cheerfully to the local church.




The higher the demands, the higher the payoff.



As Christians, we tell a Story much more engaging than any TV show. We live in a fallen world where the stakes are much higher than any board game. Our expectations should be high because of the transformational power of the gospel.



Perhaps we should stop designing worship services, discipleship programs, and youth events for the “average Christian” (aka – the Christian we don’t expect anything out of). Instead, let’s refocus on our church covenants and clearly communicate the expectations for being a disciple in the kingdom of God.



We receive little because we expect little. And church leaders, church members, and especially a lost world – we all miss out because of our low expectations.

Happy Anniversary

18 years ago today I married Kristina Grace Willhite. We now have 3 great kids and a awesome life together.

I love you Tina.